Some women come to me with a question. Others arrive with a quiet ache, a sense that something is shifting beneath the surface but no words to explain it.
What they’re really asking is: What’s happening to me?
And more importantly: What do I do with it?
In my work, I don’t just listen to the story being told. I attune to what’s underneath, the emotional and energetic undercurrents shaping her experience. To do that, I draw on three powerful tools that help me understand what’s moving through her life in real time: Astrology, the progressed moon, and Human Design.
These aren’t fortune-telling tools. They’re diagnostic lenses. They help me meet a woman where she truly is, not just where she thinks she should be.
The Foundation: The Full Natal Chart
Every session begins with the full natal chart.
When I have a woman’s birth time, I look at her Sun sign, not just as a zodiac symbol, but as the energetic core of who she is. Her Moon reveals how she processes emotion. Her Rising sign influences how she moves through the world. Her personal planets, Mercury, Venus, and Mars, show how she thinks, loves, and acts.
This gives me context. A deeper energetic backdrop.
Because the soul doesn’t speak in fragments, it speaks through the whole.
And if you don’t know your exact birth time? That’s okay. There’s still so much your chart can reveal. We simply focus on what can be clearly seen, and the clarity still comes through.
The Lunar Nodes and Chiron: Direction and Deep Wounding
Two points in the chart speak the loudest: the lunar nodes and Chiron.
The South Node shows emotional habits and patterns she’s arrived with. The North Node reveals the soul’s direction of growth. Most women feel comfortable, even loyal, to their South Node, even when it’s draining. The North Node often feels uncertain, but it’s where freedom begins.
Then there’s Chiron, the soul’s wound point. A sensitive area in the chart where she may carry pain around rejection, invisibility, or never feeling like she’s enough. When Chiron is activated, that pain may resurface, not to cause harm, but to be met with compassion and truth. Often, this is where her deepest wisdom lives.
The Progressed Moon: Emotional Timing and Soul Seasons
While the birth chart offers potential, the progressed moon reveals timing. It moves through a 28- to 30-year cycle, with each phase lasting around 2.5 to 3 years. That cycle mirrors her emotional rhythm.
A woman in a First Quarter phase might feel internal pressure to change, even if life appears stable. In a Balsamic phase, she may feel foggy or withdrawn, not dysfunctional, just on the edge of a new beginning.
The sign her progressed moon is in adds further depth. Pisces may bring softness or spiritual longing. Capricorn might draw her toward solitude and structure. Once she understands the season she’s in, she stops resisting, and that’s when peace begins.
Human Design: Her Energetic Blueprint
Human Design shows me how a woman is designed to use her energy, and where she may have been conditioned out of alignment.
If she’s a Projector trying to push, or a Generator stuck in her head instead of her gut, she’ll feel off-track. Not because she’s failing, but because she’s moving against her natural rhythm.
Human Design also reveals her decision-making authority, sensitivities, and energetic strengths. It’s not a personality test. It’s an energetic map — and it’s often the confirmation she didn’t know she needed.
It’s All in Service of Something Deeper. These tools give me a map. But the guidance itself comes from something higher.
When I sit with a client, I’m connected to my higher self, and she is supported by hers. That session becomes a sacred meeting point between wisdom, energy, and what wants to be heard.
This is the Heart of Sacred Remembrance: To see what’s ready to be seen.
To feel what’s ready to be felt.
And to help her hear what her soul has been trying to say all along.
Michelle Wollaston is a spiritual advocate, author, and host of the Soul Loom podcast. She supports midlife women who feel disconnected from themselves to gently return to their inner voice. Her work is rooted in lived experience, deep listening, and sacred reconnection. Michelle’s writing and mentoring have been featured across spiritual and wellbeing platforms.
